Quotes from "That Thing Called Tadhana"

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“Alam mo yung sinasabi nila na kung kayo, kayo talaga? Kung kayo, babalik sya sayo. Tangina! Nakakagago yun eh! Ano yun? Iaasa ko na lang sa hangin? Sa tadhana? Sa isang bagay na hindi ko nakikita yung future nyo ng taong mahal na mahal mo?” – Mace

(Mace’s Version)

“Para sakin kung mahal mo, habulin mo, dapat ipaglaban mo yun. Wag mong hintayin na may magtulak sa kanya pabalik sayo. Hatakin mo hangga’t kaya mo. Wag kang susuko. Wag kang bibitaw. Sorry. Mahal ko eh.” – Mace

“Kung hindi ka na nya mahal, hindi ka na nya mahal.” – Mace


“Hindi na kita mahal. Makakaalis ka na. 7 words. Yung 8 years namin, nagawa nyang tapusin sa 7 words.” – Mace

“Hindi ka na nya mahal. Yun na yun. Ano pang di malinaw dun?” – Anthony

“Sabihin naman nya sakin kung bakit. Ipaliwanag naman nya kung ano yung nagawa ko. Ano ba yung nagawa ko?” – Mace

“ Kung sinabi ba nya sayo kung bakit, may magbabago ba? Bottomline: hindi ka na nya mahal.” – Anthony

“Pano ba makalimot?” – Mace

“… Gano katagal yun?” – Mace

“…Importante pa ba yun? Ang mahalaga nakalimutan.” – Anthony

“Ikaw naman yung bahala dyan. Nasa sayo yan. Pwede kang uminom gabi-gabi. Pwede kang umiyak gabi-gabi. Makipag-date kung kani-kanino. Makipag-sex sa kung sino-sinong lalaki. Ikaw…O pwede ka ring makahanap ng new love.” – Anthony

“There are all kinds of love in this world. But never the same love twice.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald.

“Pag nagkakapera ka, diba parang gusto mo na lang gumawa ng pera? Tapos mare-realize mo…Eh, 8 years na pala.” – Anthony

“Aren’t we supposed to be great by this time?” – Mace

“To the great people we could have been.” – Mace

“Parang ayaw ko naman yatang mag-cheers dyan.” – Anthony

“To the great people we are today.” – Mace

“Sinungaling.” – Anthony

“To the great people we will be?” – Mace

“To the great people we will be.” – Anthony

“Alam mo sa totoo lang ikaw napanaginipan din kita eh. Pero medyo corny. Nasa Session Road tayo naglalakad.” – Anthony

“Oh talaga? Tapos?” – Mace

“Yun lang. Walang bungee jumping, bilang-bilang, bitaw-bitaw, wala. Marami lang tao tapos naglalakad lang tayo sa Session Road.” – Anthony

“Makaka-recover pa ba ko?" – Mace

“Makaka-recover ka.” – Anthony

“Sure na sure ka dyan ah.” – Mace

“ Alam mo kasi yung pagmamahal na ganyan, yung love na pinapakita mo kung gano ka-overwhelming, parang imposibleng walang puntahan. Babalik at mababalik yun sayo, not necessarily sa taong pinagbibigyan mo. Pero sigurado ko babalik sayo yun.” – Anthony

“Tulad nga nung sabi ni John Lloyd, ‘Kaya tayo iniiwan nung mga taong mahal natin kasi may paparating na bago  na magmamahal satin at magpapa-realize satin kung bakit naging mali yung dati, magpapa-realize din satin kung pano tayo dapat mahalin.’” – Anthony

“…Dun ko sinigaw lahat. Lahat ng galit ko. Lahat ng sakit. Lahat ng gusto kong sabihin sa kanya na di ko nasabi. Lahat. Pero hindi nawala lahat ng sakit pero at least nabawasan.” – Anthony

“Ang wish ko...na sana hindi ko na sya mahalin.” – Mace

“Nandyan pa ba yung shooting star? Kasi kung nandyan pa sya, gusto kong mag-thank you sa kanya kasi hindi ako nag-iisa. Malungkot lang ako pero hindi ako mag-isa ngayon.” – Mace

“Nung umabot tayo sa dulo ng Session Road, anong nangyari sa panaginip mo?” – Mace

“Hindi ko na naabutan yun eh. Nagising na ko. Pero kung dudugtungan ko yun…tumingin ka sakin dahan-dahan, tapos sinabi mong, ‘Kakalimutan ko na sya.’” – Anthony

“Kakalimutan ko na sya.” - Mace

(Anthony’s version)
“Sabi mo nga, bakit mo ipapaubaya sa hangin, sa tadhana, sa isang bagay na hindi mo naman nakikita… na kung mahal mo, habulin mo, wag mo hintayin na may magtulak sa kanya pabalik sayo. Hatakin mo. Hanggang kaya mo wag kang bibitaw. Eh sorry. Mahal kita eh.” – Anthony

Thoughts on "That Thing Called Tadhana"

“The Arrow with a Heart Pierced Through Him”

           

            “The Arrow with a Heart Pierced Through Him” is a lot like “The Missing Piece Meets Big O” by Shel Silverstein.

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            “The Missing Piece Meets Big O” is one of my favorite short clips in the Internet. It portrays how sometimes we look for somebody to complete us but what we really need to do is to complete ourselves first before we find our match.  You can watch this short story here. 

Suitcase Symbolism

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            Their 3 suitcases symbolize their emotional baggage. Sabi nga ni Mace laman nun yung “buong buhay nya”. Mace let Anthony carry some of her baggage and Anthony had a piece of her life. One of my favorite scenes is when Mace was carrying her suitcases up and down staircases.

            Before that scene, Anthony asked, “Anong gusto mo?” Mace replied, “Makalimot.” This conversation was followed by the staircase scene where the two were saying, “Mabigat. Pero mabagal. Pero kaya.” Ganyan ang paglimot. Mabigat. Mabagal. Pero kaya. Near the end, they both lost their luggage.

One More Chance References

            I love “One More Chance” just like everybody else. Pero sa totoo lang, hindi naman ako masyadong naka-relate kay Popoy at Basha. Yung character ni Maja, yun yung paborito ko. Parehas silang maganda pero mas tumagos talaga sakin ‘tong “That Thing Called Tadhana”.

University of the Philippines References

            “Tadhana” ang school hymn ng UP. Mas memorize pa namin yan kesa sa “UP Naming Mahal”. Nung tumugtog sa closing credits (bukod pa dun sa ringtone scene), sobrang daming feels.  

            At siguradong marami samin ang naka-relate sa sinabi ni Anthony, “Pagdating ko ng UP…akala ko magaling na ko eh, marunong lang pala.”

Baguio and Sagada

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            I’ve been to Baguio just five times and those escapades are five of the most memorable moments of my life. I remember standing before those paintings in BenCab Museum (where Mace and Anthony stood) thinking what those two paintings meant. If I were to go back there someday and I know I would, it will be as meaningful as all the other times.  And Sagada… never been there. I plan to go this summer.

Shooting Stars

            I have a fascination for shooting stars (and Saturn) so that shooting star scene…major plus points!

7 words

            “Hindi na kita mahal. Makakaalis ka na. 7 words. Yung 8 years namin, nagawa nyang tapusin sa 7 words.” – Mace

            This is all in the past and all is well now. But that line just reminded me of what I went through. Before my 4-year relationship ended, I tried reaching out and my efforts proved futile. In the end, I just wanted an explanation but still to no avail. I gave up and just asked, “Break na ba tayo. Yes or no?” I got a reply. He said, “Yes”. Yes, the word yes can be as heartbreaking as a no. Well, Mace, you got 7 words. I got one. Beat that!

            I wanted an explanation but as Anthony Lagdameo said, “ Kung sinabi ba nya sayo kung bakit, may magbabago ba?” With or without explanation, you move on eventually.

JM De Guzman!

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            Anak ng tokwa! Ang pogi! Nakakamatay yung ngiti at titig nya! Holy Mother! Tagos sa screen! Hindi OA. Sakto lang. Gusto kong habang nagde-develop yung istorya, pakislap nang pakislap yung mata nya. Move over, John Lloyd Cruz.

Best Scenes For Me

First – When Mace told Anthony about her dream and Anthony told her about his.

            “Yun lang. Walang bungee jumping, bilang-bilang, bitaw-bitaw, wala.”

            It was his way of comforting her. Alam mo yung ang taas ng emosyon ni Mace tapos basag trip si Anthony? Wala lang. Ang saya. Ang simple. Ang sweet.

Second – Akbay scene

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            Para sakin ito yung climax nung movie. Paka-simpleng climax. Pero tagos sa puso. Ang saya. Ang simple. Ang sweet.

           

Hugot Lines

“Sasamahan ba kita kung di ka chicks?” ---- Honesty!

“Aren’t we supposed to be great by this time?” ---- Tagos!

“Eh sorry. Mahal kita eh.” ---- Ayun na!

And because I collect quotes, I personally wrote down all my favorite lines. Here.

            This film is a must-watch. It gave me hope that Filipino moviegoers would start patronizing stories and not personalities. Cheers to more quality Filipino movies! 

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Ba't di pa sabihin ang hindi mo maamin? Ipauubaya na lang ba 'to sa hangin? - Tadhana, Up Dharma Down